Relational Leadership Intensive Training Weekend

Who We AreIf you’ve ever experienced dullness, flatness, or a lack of satisfaction in the depth of your connection with others…and KNEW that there was more possible, but you weren’t sure how to get there…

And you want more of those moments of…

  • A loved one’s eyes light up with gratitude for finally feeling Seen for the unique gift that they are…
  • Crying tears of relief from realizing we can let go of a self-image we’ve been carrying for years….
  • Raw, edgy excitement at feeling finally free to say what’s REALLY true for us, without holding back from fear of what others might think.
  • Profound spiritual realization, often only found in a monastery or intense meditative practice…

Well, that’s what we’ve been living, and we want you to be a part of this movement.

We’re inviting you, a member of our Integral Community, to a 3 day intensive that will fundamentally transform the way you relate to people, and have you relating to people in a way that transforms them.

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“Relationship seems to be more important than ever and yet more elusive than ever. For all of postmodernism’s emphasis on the relational or cultural components of life, they have offered pitifully little in terms of actual practices to authentically awaken and get in touch with this dimension.  This is where The Integral Center excels!”

- Renowned Integral Philosopher Ken Wilber

In this weekend, the Integral Center team shares with you this unique and powerful Relational Leadership art form they have come to call Integral Circling™.

  • OK, What is this Circling Business?

    Simply put, it’s the best work we’ve found for creating extraordinary and profound intimacy in relationships—an organic, in-the-moment interpersonal process that’s equal parts art form, meditation, and encounter group.

    Though it works exquisitely in intimate relationships, it can be applied in all areas of life because it’s so organic, non-analytical, effective, and *fun*…

    More about Integral Circling™:

    The purpose of Circling is twofold…

    1. Circling uncovers “relational blind spots”—the places where we push away the depth of connection and intimacy that’s possible, whether we’re:

    ~ In relationship and want to deepen with our partner…
    ~ Single, and looking to attract someone to explore deeper connection with…
    ~ Looking for deeper connection with ANYONE—family, friends, prospective clients…

    Through this fresh, direct-experience in-the-moment process, we have more Choice about how we respond…when we’re aware of our blind spots.

    2. The experience of “Being Seen” for who we authentically are is one of the most rewarding experiences we can have as human beings…and Circling teaches us exactly that — how to see and celebrate each person for the unique flavor they bring to the world.


    This practice will foster your AGENCY…through transcending who you thought you were, to discover an expanded sense of self, while fully experiencing and including every previous layer that this new layer is grounded in and arising from.

    This practice will also foster your capacity for COMMUNION and CONNECTION—through sharpening your ability to deeply See and Connect with others.

What are people saying about Aletheia?

“I’m Loving the Circling Practice – and Enjoying the Hell Out of this Deep-Dive!”

“I am inspired and challenged by — in other words, completely loving — the Circling Practice as a pathway into We Space. This practice of intentionally attuning to and riding the flow of subtle energy currents in dialogue opens new worlds and ignites possibilities. I am enjoying the hell out of this deep dive into the cenote of relationship … I feel alive, engaged and totally lit up.”

“For the First Time Since I Was A Child, I Feel Free. I’m In Touch With How Much I Love My Life, And The People In It.”

Circling in a space of safe, open inquiry has had me come to know myself with an ever-increasing clarity. As my patterns become conscious… I can see them as they occur, and from this place of knowing, I now have choice.

For the first time since I was a child I feel free. Things are still really hard, and still the world occurs as bright and beautiful. I’m in touch with how much I love my life and the people in it.

“Training in Integral Circling has given me an understanding and a framework to know why I love what I love. I knew that I loved connecting with people and being real. I didn’t realize it could be taught! When I started learning it, I saw that in my favorite moments with people, this is what I was doing. And these guys have taken it apart so that it can be taught and can be reproduced more consistently.

Another other thing I love about this work: It allows people to be in the moment and experience themselves and others without a story. Without rejecting story, just seeing that it’s not necessary for revelation.

Circling brings us into a shared experience of the truth of the moment, a space of rawness To me, that’s where magic happens, and that rawness is powerful fuel for my spiritual growth.”

Victor Frankl once said, ‘Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.’ Integral Circling is the most effective practice I’ve ever found to increase the space between stimulus and response.

Details and Logistics

The intensive is a 3 day weekend.


The Aletheia Integral Relating Intensive is not for everyone. Admission is by application only.

These events have limited availability, and the fee for the course is: $995.


We don’t throw around the phrase relationship as spiritual practice anymore. We actually mean it. At least once a day I have an interaction with someone where one of us, if not both of us, have the experience of realization of transcending who I thought I was, while more richly including my embodied experience. Effortlessly, by virtue of an integral quality of relating.

—Decker Cunov, co-founder of The Integral Center, and senior course leader for Aletheia